Ah yes. The creeping crud in the tub syndrome. Sounds like he's a typical bachelor. And I don't blame you for not wanting to sit in that.

But it would be good to experiment with another way to self-attend while he gifts you with his cooking and attends to himself while doing so.

Gabe

God heals the broken-hearted (Psalm 147:3)

Me: 44
W: 40
Separated 8/2011

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