Sorry I wasn't here for you during your rough patch. I'm back after 6 weeks or so of being gone, but I've caught up on your thread. You seem to have dealt with the OW2 startup incident, but here's a thought in case it comes up again...
Remember who he was when that started, as evidenced by all the deception that happened afterward. The incident is new to you, because you just discovered it, but his behavior was the old him. Yes, he didn't fess up now, for whatever reasons. But you can't interpret old behavior as a new deception, in today's context.
Glad you got a chance to celebrate Valentine's Day. What did you wind up getting him?
