The excerpt I posted from Slowly's thread by T2 really hit home with me. It pretty much encapsulated everything I've been thinking about OW2.
SO told me the reason he dated her during our S is because he thought he could "fix" her, "fix" things for her. Apparently she's never had a real boyfriend before. WTF? She's 27 yrs old! I just don't get that.
(And yes, I'm ranting/venting here!) She's immature. She's still receiving financial support from her family. On her blog she went on and on about how great her mom and dad are. Makes me wonder how fantastic mommy and daddy would think she was if they knew she was for all intents and purposes screwing a married man?
I also don't get why SO seems to think she's so heroic, although she seems to be dropping in that area. I mean, for god's sake...she still gets excited about having a birthday! Give me a friggin' break!
Just how heroic is it to have an affair with a man who's in a committed relationship? How heroic is it to be his enabler?
