Quote: The answer is YES, absolutely. Eventually you will come to understand that the OW was nothing more than a misguided attempt by your H to sooth his emotional pain. OWs/OMs are nothing more than their trying to re-write history, they are trying to re-capture the experience they had when they first met and fell in love with us....they persue the relationship like an addict seeks out their next fix....and like an addict while it feels good in the moment...it makes them feel like shi$ in the long run. When you think of the OW...feel sorry for her poor dumb pitiful a$$ because she sold her moral core, her dignity, her self respect and esteem to have hidden moments with another woman's man and in the process KNEW that SHE was tainted not special. SHE could have been anyone and I mean absolutely anyone that willingly made themselves available to man lost in pain and confusion. She's NOT someone to envy, in fact, she's someone to pity for her extremely desperate and low self esteem. Any woman that will settle for another woman's sloppy seconds has already decided that she's not good enough to attract a whole and healthy man on her own so she circles the injured MM like a shark waiting to strike...how sad and pathetic for her. T2
