Quote: One issue I'm having problems with is that I get very emotional when we ML. I'm finding myself in tears afterwards (thinking about OW's). Any thoughts on ways I can mitigate this?
Yep: repetition, repetition, repetition. No, I'm not kidding. ML is very bonding, and healing as I'm sure you are experiencing. Expressing your emotion is likely part of the healing process. You 2 seem to be continuing to do a lot of communicating, and I imagine that this hurt will be part of what you discuss. As with the crying, this should help you to heal, as will the growing trust b/t the two of you.
No, I'm not kidding. ML is very bonding, and healing as I'm sure you are experiencing. Expressing your emotion is likely part of the healing process. You 2 seem to be continuing to do a lot of communicating, and I imagine that this hurt will be part of what you discuss. As with the crying, this should help you to heal, as will the growing trust b/t the two of you.
