(((Martha))) I agree with Slowly. Let the storm pass over before you try to go out and clean up. The good news is that you are going to be OK--you have come so far and have so many tools at your fingertips now.
I smiled ruefully when I read your red part about snooping. I always think of your warning to me when I feel the urge. Chuck just told me the other day to stop because it is not a life-giving thing to do. This experience is another example of that. I saw a thread somewhere where people are advocating snooping. All I know is that it doesn't do me any good. I guess I'd say it's life-stunting.
