CD, I think it's pretty easy to detach from an angry person. But what are you going to do when she hits the other stages?
Incidentally, has she offered any explanations as to why she was unwilling or unable to work on the M? Does she have unmet needs herself that she is resentful over?
Oh and I don't think I've expressed my sympathy to you yet. I truly am sorry to hear of your decision, though I can't say I'm surprised.
