The one fight was just petty stuff when we were both tired and crabby. The most recent fight was what we always fought about...issues with the kids. She had a point and so I did agree with her, but not before I pointed out.."we're not married" which came across as "you have no right to come in here and act like their step-mom". It was a low blow by me and I acknowledged that it came out of fear and insecurity. We patched it up, but did talk about it with the MC yesterday. Right now our focus is on dealing with an commitment phobias and learning how to discuss/argue in a more constructive way.
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In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
