Sounds like things are going quite well! Not sure what advice to give... How about "Slow and steady wins the race" ?
I like how you're checking in with yourself to see if your intuition or emotions are clueing you into notable patterns or problems that may be creeping in. That's probably a good thing - to keep a perspective about it all and to look for ways to prevent a neg turn from starting or continuing.
How does one keep up with self-care when the WAS returns fulltime? Is it less necessary now that your lovebank is being filled in part by your lover? Or is there a better balance than before the bomb, in which you keep feeding yourself some, making you less dependent on your lover for your needs?
Just curious about life on the other side of the looking glass... Take care, JM.
