"n order to do that, it is my opinion that she has to know you are strong enough and that you aren't too wrapped up in her. If she feels you are pining away too much she might be afraid whatever she's guilty about will be crushing to you. She may even feel that it will end any chance with you. My suggestion is to avoid any R talks with her for now. Just have a discussion with her but keep it focused on her and don't say anything about your own feelings (ie miss her, sad, love her). "
WOW that sounds like my wife talking to me. How weird that is. She tells me that she is not worth me and quit putting so much into her. Its so hard I miss her so much even tho I talk to her everyday. I know she feels very guilty about what has happend in the last 7 months.
