That's great...As you insinuated, who knows where it will go; but it is at least good to hear that this DBing stuff has an effect, as I know it can. I wish you alot of luck and hope it can be a success story.
Me, I got to put my kids to bed tonight at her house and she was able to talk to her friend on the phone while I took care of getting the kids ready for bed. Don't know if she appreciated it; but it was different behavior from me than before. Also, my X got a few text messages/calls from old next door neighbor and told her friend that the people were acting like high school kids. Also, she told me when I said why don't you just answer it...I don;t havethe energy or the time to deal with it right now.
Does this mean things are turning???? I don't think yet; but at least it is a positive step for her that she is seeming to let go of that part. I just need to keep being the person I want to be and maybe, just maybe I will get a chance to work with her??? I still keep trying to move forward; but I still hold out some hope.
We sat and watched figure skating for a bit and then I left. Asked her if it would be okay to come by tomorrow and see how my stepson's night at the baseball writers dinner was with his dad and she seemed okay with me comong by???? Thought I would get the big "you can jsut call"; but she seemed okay with me dropping by...So, I will for a bit after work tomorrow. We'll see...I just have to be her friend right now...OTherwise, it will never get the chance.
