It's 5 am and I'm on my way to take a shower for work and reading the board with my coffee. I came upon your thread and mindset wise this is exactly where I am in my relationship with my XW as well, only she has remarried and is miserable. She to talks like your X and is looking for that soft landing spot.
I will convey to you a bit of wisdom my IC laid on me over a year ago. " You vote with your feet" Think about it a while. He was well appreciative of the Marriage Builders / Divorce Busting techniques and couldn't understand how anyone could be so forgiving. Then highly suggested that to be happy you need to be involved with someone who is emotionally your equal.
Gotta go, Have a Great Day ! David A
You vote with your feet. Divorce final 12/24/2004 I Give Up !
