Quote: ----------------------------------------- She knew d@mn well what we were supposed to do! -----------------------------------------
So, tell her that's how it seems to you and see what she has to say. Don't accuse - inquire.
You have to directly discuss sex between you two. You will never get anywhere with innuendo. Until you establish a base that you are both willing to work from, you are doing nothing more than taking a walk in the swamp.
It sure sounds like she is avoiding sex with you, but how are you ever going to know if you don't discuss it with her?
If she is avoiding sex with you, then find out why, and see what changes BOTH of you can make to address the situation. Please note that "changes" include BOTH spouses.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
