But I thought that she just asked, as she might have asked one of her girl friends

Well your response will either put you in the gf category, not recommended, or the virile male category. Your choice.

But with a few broken promises
I dont think she broke her promises, as much as you didnt walk thru the opened door.

Question,

Does your D10 prevent you from ML? Does she have to be out of the house, or asleep for you to ML?

Why?