I agree with LostLove, but it is very difficult to keep the one you love out of your thoughts.
This year I went out to a party with friends, some knew about my situation and some didn't - it made for some awkward moments, but I handeled it well. Drank like a Viking. Joked and laughed. It was all good.
On the Drive home (1 hour). I sent text messages to STBXW and some other friends and wished them all a Happy New Year.
I've got my boys with me and W called to wish us all a Happy New Year. She asked if I was going to bring the kids back to her today. I think I'm going to watch some football and then maybe take the boys to amovie. If it's not too late I'll run them home, but I'm playing that by ear.
Vinces - you gotta find ways to occupy your time. Too much time alone gets us to thinking too much about things we have no control over - remember we only control ourselves (with varying degrees of success).
