I really wish I had the oportunity to log on earlier to help you through the evening.
holidays are tough and no doubt new years and the upcoming romantical one are the toughest.
but if you think about it realistically...what would you have been doing if none of this ever happened to you?
all this did happen to me a while back and ya know what? I just spent the new year with my mother, her bf, my gf and her new bf...where was my h? he dissapeared somewhere around 11:45....went to sleep. last year no one came over so h was asleep on the couch by 10 pm finally at 11pm I said to myself happy new year and went to bed.
what's the difference? this year I decided to do what I wanted and invited my mother and my friend over.
stop thinking about your WAS and start thinking about YOU! what makes you happy, who are your friends, what do YOU like to do. Start doing it and stop thinking about your WAS...unless they left you because you weren't thinking of them waisting your time thinking of them now issn't going to bring them back to you.
YOU'VE got to come first...that's not tough love that's the way love is supposed to be! life aint no fairy tale...if you're not taking care of you what do you have to offer anyone else.
Get busy living for you and your WAS just may notice...but hey you'll be too busy enjoying your life to care...well...much.
