Corri

What the heck are you talking about... Man my writing must suck. when I do instigate, if its aimed at you, you wont know it. so stay on high alert.... and just continue to play along. HP quit on me awhile back. It sucks. LOL. If its not, dont mess with my honorable intentions. Im not here to hurt anyone just open eyes. Not everything I say has a secondary purpose. Your gonna make me paranoid.

Since HP has been in a funk all week she needs a hug and some understanding. not me prodding at her. The hugs and stuff is NMJ, it wrecks my cool aloof exterior, so I thought we would just chit chat about stuff.

Comeon Corrie be nice, we are supposed to be partners, not arch rivals, M vs F/ BF vs Corrie. makes me sad, I thought we were friends now.

Quote:

These two books boiled down men and women to two questions (which is always dangerous boiling down a complex human being to something simple, eh):

Men: Do I have what it takes?
Women: Am I lovely?




I was asking if there were any other guys willing to comment on HP's reading material, about essential maleness. Needing to have value. If it is a common theme, then its a insecurity that they will be able to work on via perception change of themself, (self validation, other self esteem concepts, ways to 'know' that they have value and so change there attendant manifestations of there innerself) and putting efforts into any true lacking.


Gosh when a woman is down in a funk, sick etc, I would never think to try to make her feel better with nookie either. Thats a new one for me. <processing... always looking for ways to up the nookie factor, heheh. > and the second or third time it has been mentioned. I always felt that I would just be being selfish.

Also if HP is exhibiting crankiness, well-- a guy just wants to be left alone in his cave to handle his crankiness.
So he is going to give, what he would want. to be left alone.

A woman wants group support. Maybe HP can convey this to Mr. H. maybe not. Maybe he will step up sometimes, but its not a normal reaction for us. HP needs to find some surrogate sisters IRL, and I say that with sincerety and kindness.