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What triggered all of these behaviours in you? What blew out your flame so suddenly, without warning? Did you cut the EC and assertiveness at the first sign of the EA, or was it something else earlier



a convergence of events, that triggered my FOO issues. Lack of boundary control, egotism/trust, lack of education, incorrect/unfinished ideas on attraction --long term.
Im human. Not some AI construct sent by MWD to make Stigmata think he is in a parallel universe.

Do you see something similar happening in your sitch? With your H? Im tired of dredging up mine.

Like everyone else here, I am working on my tendancies,and trying to change some behaviors that are too extreme. My playerishness as LFL calls it. playing with jobs, playing with money, playing with my life. Risk taking. I risked everything.... on one thing. gosh I dont even do that when its just me. I always have a back up plan. No marriage insurance though.

gotta learn to let it out in controlled, safe...bursts. I wont be able to eliminate it.