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"You know how you can internally have all these wonderful feelings for your mate and then they walk in the door and you're less than enthralled and you go, What's up with me? Just 10 minutes ago I was excited about seeing them."





Absolutely! Sounds like this is a common feeling. It makes me feel bad when one moment I'm feeling good about her, then I see her and it's back to reality.

Hey, this is Hairdog's thread - whatever happened to him? Hasn't posted in two weeks..... I'm worried that he tried one of our suggestions, and Mrs. HD killed him.