hmmm. I like it, very close to my internal 'Do I have enough S&R value' An insecurity at its base level. Never sees the light untill my W cheats on me. No I take that back. It first is touched on when work/ being a good provider is not tops. When I perceive I am lacking in that area. The fix is of course --knowing that I do/am, and reacting from that frame... Ah very good HP thank you for this.
It said that men are warriors and have a wildness to their spirit that we women do not understand and we'd be better off trying never to tame it. Bad things ensue if we do.
True and True. Yet you insist on home improvement. 'Come along H things could be better'. Um --what happend to, I was the cats meow before we got married? What happend to WOA? Now its change this, why dont you... when are you going to.... also another version of trying to betaize us, which of course turns off your attraction when you succed. Which was the source of that misogynist freuds frustration. 'I gave her what she wants -- why doesnt she like me'?
LOL. It is what it is, so we may as well find the humor. Feel free to give your version of it -from the flipped side.
