Oh for sure, women are the more complicated of the sexes.
These two books boiled down men and women to two questions (which is always dangerous boiling down a complex human being to something simple, eh):
Men: Do I have what it takes? Women: Am I lovely?
Not to imply that this is all we are about; only to say that this is the question that we will find our hearts asking, again and again.
It said that men are warriors and have a wildness to their spirit that we women do not understand and we'd be better off trying never to tame it. Bad things ensue if we do.
The women.....well, ok, I confess that I haven't finished it yet. I'll let you know. LOL