HP

Ill get a list of books together. Thats not really where I combined it all from, but my experiences from my late teens early 20's isnt written. observing, and LIVING, is the real educator. trying different things. I took some specific pysch, biology classes to rectify what I was seeing, doing with what was known.

here is a book on body language. Body Language by Julius Fast Reading it, honestly it makes no sense to most people. having done it, or reading it then going out and trying it, and observing it in others you go 'OH, thats what they were trying to describe.'

Ive mentioned the Alchemy of Love and Lust by Crenshaw before to someone else. Ill bet there is a big fat footnote to this book in LFL's National Geographic reference. Youll see that the same chemicals that are released during fear and stress are also during new love. extrapolating that knowledge, - I love extrapolating, gets me in all kinds of trouble--you understand why people make EC during realatively short time frames in extreme circumstances. They body doesnt differentiate between the cause of the chemicals. So when I am dating I take a girl to do some --new for her, heart pumping activity. If you are in a LTR, you can do the same even on a mild level. Go take a new activity class together, even if its just a couple hours, something as simple as rollerblading together or even milder, dance lessons.

these activities will cause you to do the mating dance steps which include eye contact, escalating touch to different areas, and of course laughter at and with each other. The segue that I see break down for many men is when it goes from this to having SEX. They seperate sex and affection. they suddenly break from the interaction and go into logical mode, often because they are so afraid of rejection, instead of just non verbally continuing to lead and just let or make things happen.

then of course the hesitant 'ums' and 'uh are you sure you want to do that' and 'that tickles', etc that Cally spoke of to Chromo and told him to ignore, get taken seriously in the guys fear and expectation and indoctrination that --'no means NO'. ( yes HP most women do that stuff. LOL. It does have a benefit, look how Callys H got to be the aggresive teacher, initiator.)

Other books

Mean Genes by.....cant remember
ideas on being controlled by genetics and the irrationality of the fear response that serves no pupose in most human interactions.
and of course
The BIBLE.
So many stories of male/female interactions. So much in the backstory of what isnt said. Direct commandments and advice on what MUST be for success.


What are you reading ? I have to be honest (well I dont have to be, but I sure like it....) I am alwasy leery of females seeing/understanding attraction so clearly. I see it die when they do.



Mr. Azzhat