Corrie,
DUOH! I totally misunderstood IHJ. I went back and reread her comment and went OHHH. THAT kind of stirred up. I took it to mean there was another submissive/dominant type uproar going on. Hence my confusion...
LOL.
Im gonna blame it on lack of sleep back then. Truthfully I was expecting a response, and I read that expectation into what IHJ said. Bad BF. Too much of that lately.
Darn you, you embarassed me twice, a compliment on the writing, from a writer, <dont let HD see that what with my preps dangling and word nazi tactics and unedited punctuations> and busted on the deprecating. Not even a little slip gets past you. I cant remember the last time I really got embarassed. I dont know whether to say thank you or knock it off....

Dori,

There is way more to a M then attraction. (Did I just say that?) I was a serious azzhat. Cut her off from EC. Imagine you are sitting near a warm, roaring fire, and suddenly without warning, splash. Its gone. without reason that you can see or find. and there is nothing but a chill wind left in its place.
Was insecure, non responsive, uncommunicative, all while letting OM pursue her unchallenged. Non protective, unassertive, lack of providing security. Should I go on? Where is the puking Icon?

I was Clearly an unattractive azzhat. (hmm maybe there isnt...)