Do it 20 times in a row and its going to bore her to death.

Over kill. My H is seriously guilty of this. If he percieves I like something he did he does it over and over and over again until it takes on a feeling of a ritual. Then it no longer is pleasing.

Ill move her around on the couch, and adjust her to fit me so I/we are comfortable. I dont ask if she is.

Yeah I think this is the first thing you have posted BF that would put us in fighting mode. My H does this and it pisses me off when I am all comfy and snug and he dislodges me to snuggle with him making me uncomfortable.
I always tell him if I am comfy and he wants to snuggle he needs to be the uncomfy one. Not me.