thank you, It was very hard hitting the enter button on that post. I have this very uncharacteristic reaction when I post here, to not be too detailed or graphic. IRL, I have no qualms....
I have no intention or desire to imply a specific guy or any of the guys dont do or know this. Most of them acted aggresive, assertive, leading in the beginning of their R. It gets lost over time. And then her desire does too. vicious circle.
The point in stopping something that she likes is simple, but complicated. A woman will say, I liked that, so the man wil do it over and over and over just like that with no change. why? cause when he likes something, he wants more. MORE MORE MORE MORE. Just like the first one. LOL. For her though it soon becomes an irritation, like chinese water torture. This applies weather its rubbing her hands, or rubbing her clit.
A simple manuver like slowly backing your W up against a wall opening her robe, or taking her towel, then running your finger slowly slowly slowly, down the center of her body from chin to belly button, will petrify her in a good way. (if she resists slightly at the start, say ' relax, I dont want to have sex with you,....... right now. Sheesh --is that all you ever think about'? --If she reallly resists alot, stop dumbazz.)
Do it 20 times in a row and its going to bore her to death.
Then if you kiss her and leave it, she knows what you intended, knows what you were thinking about, and is now thinking about it too, but cant figure out why you left. Why why why her mind will go around and around. Keeping her thinking about it, and 'marinating' in the moment. Marinating is good for them.
anything that makes them go why did he do that, what did he mean by that, things that engage their mind and cannot be dismissed easily, unlike that annoying tap on the shoulder she recieves, when her head hits the pillow, thats says, to her 'Honey can we have sex, please?'
Easily shruged away with, 'Im tired'. or a big sigh that is then overly personalized.
in the end, even 'trying' to get a reaction can become annoying and predictable in itself.
