Blackfoot...okay, you have sufficiently stirred up the whole board, lol.

I cant imagine what fires I may have started? Need to get reading, I guess. The whole board? sheesh --I am not running around looking to justify or defend. anything good float up? or just crap?

NO nay sayers here? Just cautioning of temperance to this post?
I seem to be losing my touch.

That post could have been better written. It was a combination of memories of x, memories of past gf, that seem to be flooding my brain after 9 years, even as my memories of her fade, (<ego to brain> WTH is going on around here? Who is in charge of this memory filing system? ) and synopsis of currrent interactions that lead to positive feedback. Serious lack of whys. will work on it.

I agree with you IHJ, she needs to have time to accept, and 'allow'.