But "anyone" is not propositioning her, YOU are. So her argument falls flat.
Look, I know that the LD person does not want to be in the position of rejecting..and knowing that they are hurting their partner. But that's sorta the reality of the situation, isn't it? Whether it's intentional or not, it's still rejection and it still stings.
Although I have become enlightened, differentiated, you name it, I still don't like being sexually rejected. Who does?
To think that a person gets to a point where they can laughingly brush it off as if it is nothing to them is ludicrous. If my emotional investment in the proposition was low enough that I wouldn't care about the outcome, then I probably wouldn't care enough to even initiate in the first place.
Sorry about the blowup. I hope it wasn't due to our 'suggestions'.
