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Tomorrow, W and I are sitting down, writing out our Forgivings, discussing them, and burning the papers we wrote them on.



Sounds like you have a plan MW. GOOD for you! A plan to meet your goal is always a good thing! Hope it takes you in the direction that you want it to.

Also sounds like you have had quite a time of things with being attacked and destroyed and all on this other BB. I'm sorry to hear that you were treated badly there. Obviously they must not follow the same principles that we do here. You'll have to be re-trained.

Not to mention all you've been through with your marriage. Your W sounds like she is a piece of work!! lying, cheating, hiding things from you, an affair, cussing, passing out in the bed, ringing up debt she can't afford and anything else I might have missed. Lot's for you to forgive there. I would imagine that your list of forgivings for her will be pretty long. Possibly even several pages?

I see now why your W came home so soon. You must be quite a guy to have the ability to stay calm in the aftermath of all her shorcomings and to be able to just forgive all of that. To never bring any of it up again, snoop to see if she's still doing any of these things, and burn it and move on.

What do you think will be on her list?

Last edited by avf; 12/30/05 05:51 AM.