He says yes it's fine, I'm not going to be able to go every week, it's just something I don't really have time for in my life right now and I don't see where it's going to do much good anyway....it feels like it might do more harm than good."
That's probably going to be a self-fulfilling prophecy, Heather. Counseling typically does not work with people who believe it won't work.
I said how I feel, but those words were probably better off left unsaid, huh?!
Oh yep. It's not just a matter of expressing oneself, but how you go about it.
Power struggles... that's what you two are always into.