When I repeated my question about his whereabouts, he answered "None of your business" but not in our usual playful tone, like he would use if he were doing something as a surprise for me or something. I asked why he would say that and he oddly said "I can't discuss it right now". I find that odd because HE called ME, why would he call me back at a time when he couldn't talk?

He called you back when he could talk about the life insurance, he didn't know you were going to ask about his whereabouts, though. Perhaps someone was in his office, and maybe his whereabouts involved them, so he wasn't going to start talking about them while they're there, that's all.

Dunno about that dropping of you and the kids off the policy though... that is odd.

And to answer an earlier question... no, I'm not less repulsed. Like I said, that's just me. Heather, you still find excuses for his behaviors to justify him... there's a payoff in it for you of some kind... no, not a future payoff, that's not what I mean... there's an immediate payoff, there's a reason you do so now. It will all come out in the Counselor's wash, I suppose.