Quote: It will be a very important piece of learning to listen and trust my inner voice because right now I have this gnawing feeling that the people who support me only support me because they haven't heard H's side and that I've somehow colored things in my favor with people even though I feel like I've tried to be fair and objective. This will be the first time that someone who has heard my side of the story will also hear my H's.
That's one of the best things about getting with a good C, a "reality check" on what you can expect in a good R/M. I know that DR says to keep you expectations in check, but that's really an admonition to avoid impatience and haste in a sitch that you're trying to save. It's not a blanket condemnation of reasonable expectations in your M.
Good luck with this. I have a feeling it could be a turning point for you and H.
When does he go?
Thanks,
Joe
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