I remember back in Sep of '04 a month before WAW moved out, we went to one MC session together, one IC and then one MC together all with the same councilor. After that I had several IC sessions. At my sessions my goal was to try to understand WAW and prevent the separation and/or D. The C frustrated me to no end b/c she would not talk about WAW b/c WAW was a patient of her's. At my last session she recommended that I see some one for my anger. I quit seeing that C after WAW moved out. I'm pretty sure that WAW quit before I did.
My point is that I'm surprised that C told you that H was an "Intimacy Avoider".
I feel like WAW also suffered from this. I do have my reasons for thinking this. I'm going to do some research on this.
