Quote: If things were good between us, it would be ideal. It would mean more money, no travel and convenient commute for both of us to where we were thinking about building. I am really torn on this. I have to decide by tomorrow. I"m stuck on 'why should I do this for him? why should I act as if everything is wonderful so that I can come home and still be banned from my own bedroom?'. On the other hand, how do I expect things to get better if I can't take one step at a time.
If this doesn't have to be decided right now...sleep on it a bit. I don't know if you follow my thread at all. But 2mos ago I had wanted Dave to work in the dart store...I had this vision that working together would bring us together, spend time together, blah blah and then life would be good again. Well 2mos later he is working there. We have not reconciled and it's been hell having him there and we don't even work together. We're just in the same building separate by a door (thank goodness) I don't know how strong you are, I'm okay, but I still get sick at the mere sight of him or his voice these days. He's gone out of his way to try and make me miserable and I am the one who got him the job there...sleep on it a bit...think it through...
