Heather,

I just found your new thread yesterday (sorry I missed your birthday!) and I wanted to find some way of saying, "Be optimistic."

I'm not sure I can manage that, but how are the rest of your interactions with H? Is he making good on the therapy/counseling? Will you be in MC together?

You can learn from this experience and keep your boundary in place, if you have some good things on other fronts to help you stay motivated.

Don't blame yourself. You saw things getting better and you acted on that. But if you do have some good things going on, don't discount them yet. Go back to your plan and be clear about your boundaries.

Thanks,

K


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