I blame myself way too much in my situation, and you can't do that...It takes 2 to tango!
I read some of your posting and I am goal orientated also, and it is real hard not seeing your goals meet or at least see progress on your timeline! Patience is hard but I know personally is needed!
Flaneur said it that she is waiting to write her "success story", and I felt I was so close but had my wife contact the OM the other day and take a major step back! I think in my case I dwell on what should be and what did happen instead of thinking of what great things can happen over time!
Just my ramblings!


Tim my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1