He said "If anything it goes the other way....you know what? Forget it. You're not looking at anything when we get home. When you were being reasonable I was willing to let you look, but not when you're acting like this."
Apparently, what he extends to you is CONDITIONAL love. That's his controlling nature, Heather. "If you act a certain way, then I'll love you."
I always thought that a man's wife was supposed to be the most beautiful woman in the world to him. He said "One of, but not the only."
Doi! The guy's got a lot to learn about what to say to a woman. He really takes you for granted, huh?
I know everyone fantasizes, don't get me wrong. But you know what? My H is my favorite main character in mine.
I can relate to that, my ex was my fav fantasy too. But different strokes for different folks (no pun intended). Maybe it's best to leave sexual fantasies alone, leave them as the fantasies they are. They're not reality.
Stupidly, I plan to continue the discussion tonight.
If you know it's a dumb idea, then don't do it.
I want to tell him that I don't want to be the ONLY beautiful girl in the world....that I just want to be HIS preference, the most beautiful girl to HIM. If he cannot say that I am, I don't know what the hell I'm gonna do.
Heather, it's a fantasy. Leave it be. But yes, to you verbally, he should've said what you want to hear, if he cared about your feelings. I have this theory you might agree with... if someone loves you, they'd better damn walk the walk and talk the talk.
