but never saying that he wanted to work things out, only that he was trying to figure things out. Yup. Same ole same ole... my H asked me loads of questions when he moved over to Country X for new job. About if I would move with him. Told me about the house etc etc. Even asked me to fill up application forms for the boys' schools. But again...all talk talk talk. Heck..the house that he talked about was chosen by ow. Can you imagine the hurt and shock? SO, I've given-up on his talk and talk and talk.
now I will start expecting things, lke he will tell OW to piss off. He won't. Believe me. I've heard those words from my H umpteen times that he is figuring out how to tell ow etc etc. But he doesn't and I end up disappointed and upset and basically with ZERO PMA. So stop expecting.
Sorry for being unencouraging. WHat I am trying to say is that you MUST STOP expecting, because it will do you NO good. You will feel depressed, anxious etc and you start badgering him and then he will think ow is more attractive. Be the wonderful you. Act like you are a "new girlfriend" and don't pressure. Don't critisize. He will then see that you are the better option. Most importantly, take care of yourself. Do things for yourself. Be happy.
