I guess that is my dilemma, because if I choose to believe him, the OW is pressuing him, and if she is about to move away to be near him, she probably is expecting committment and if they were to live together, well lets just say my H knows nothing about balancing a checkbook... Anyway, my thought is to show him that I love him by being there, not pressuring, not expecting anything. But that doesn't exactly help me on my own personal front, where this approach seems to be kind of wishy washy. The truth is that I believe he is pretty freakin lucky that I still want him!
