So here is my question: When your WAH is hanging around as much as possible, there is still intimacy and affection (we are avoiding R talk), yet he is still texting and calling OW, do you continue to act "as if" things are running smoothly? Or is it better to cut off affection and attention and listening and tell the WAH he can't have the best of both?
I have been doing the first option, it seems to be working, but part of me feels a little wrong about it. Is that where you do what works even if it doesn't feel right?
