It's funny how many of these WAH's go for completely different types of women, as compared to their wives. I can tell you o.w. in my H's life is totally different from me, in every way. She's even of a different race, so there are tons of ethnic differences too. It's just bizarre. He has told me that he thinks he has lost his mind by being with her. But the key is different. See, WAH's are unhappy in their current situation, so why would they go pick an o.w. to be with that was like their wife at home? No; they choose someone opposite, because they think that will help matters.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
