Thank you AndreaV, you are right, she will not fix his problems, he is such a master of disguise, she does not even KNOW what his problems are, and they are doozies, I'll tell ya.
There is some strange comfort in knowing she is COMPLETELY opposite of me, in fact appearance-wise she is all of things he would say he didn't find attractive. It's all ego-boosting and s@x, I know that, which is why he comes to me to talk about his non-R dramas. I'm holding my head hi, knowing that I will rise above all of this, and am looking forward to being flirty but elusive this weekend.