Ah, but it's easier when they are out of the house and you don't know everything they're doing!
My H has this picture of her in his office, taken just before she first got sick - she was so beautiful, athletic, confident (and was a straight A student). I almost cry every time I see it, I miss that girl so much, and it seems like she never really returned to us.
S19 - he's really no trouble, just want to help keep him, in his naivete, from getting sucked into something unhealthy. I really miss him - he's the only other person in the house with the "happy gene" - sometimes I find it so draining to be surrounded in this house by three people all with depression and related issues. It's so not me!!!
