It has been FOREVER since I checked in on you! I didn't even know where to find your thread! Glad to see you still hanging out here, and what a wonderful letter from your H! I always appreciated your words of wisdom, and sticking up for me, no matter what!!!!
Unfortunately, I'm not the guy to be asking about parent advice. Not that I'm not a good Dad, but I was always the one to have fun with the kids, and leave the tough stuff to Mom.....Maybe that's why I'm D'd now.....
I will have to agree with Zoo. My 19 year old son also had a 16 year old GF, and it wasn't long distance, but right in front of my face. I felt sorry for the girl, her Mom had been M & D 3 times, and was now living with a BF, and her 2nd Dad was a friend of mine. I'm not even sure if she knew who her real Dad was. Fortunately, she and my S were both very smart, and I hounded them with articles about sex offenders, and how they could ruin their lives. She spent a few nights at our house, and my W would sleep on the floor between the couch, and our S's room.....LOL
My S swears they never did anything, but I lied when I was 19 too..... So I don't know what to tell you, but as with anything else, communication is the key! So express to him what you did to us!
