Yes, LNL, I weoghed myself Monday and I'm still stuck too - 168.5 lbs. And really, although we did entertain (office party at our home) on the weekend, I had been eating really well all week and exercising faithfully. And eating grapefruit twice a day. And taking my vitamins. And taking chromium, magnesium and cinnamon in case insulin resistance is part of the problem.
I must get in to the lab and have my thyroid levels rechecked. I know that in the past, eating this way and exercising this much, I would have lost a lot more weight by now. My snacking is way down, my cravings are much better, I'm eating about 1700-1800 calories a day of really healthy stuff, and ...... nothing.
Okay - I will say, though, that I am firmer even if I'm not smaller.
You know, LNL, you may be right about your H. My H is one of the good guys, always was before his crises, has been after, and that's what helps us get through the aftereffects. From your descriptions of your H, though, he just might not have it in him to do what it would take to repair the marriage. (I still think, for what it's worth, that he's trying to keep that connection with you, but I can't blame you if you don't want it anymore.)
