Quote: ---------------------------------- how do they do it? How does a ND women become HD by her actions? ----------------------------------
1) Identification of issue(s). 2) Resolution of Issue(s).
Time and effort Cemar. No silver bullets.
MrsNOP's number one need is Financial Security. I make a very healthy six figure income, but there have been some very uncertain economic times in our life. We have been downright poor more than once. There are no guarantees for the future. Regardless, I have always provided for us.
Her definition of financial security is not how much we make, it is being able to pay our bills without concern. Living on a limited budget doesn't bother her, as long as the money to pay the bills is there.
Since financial support is your wife's top need. I would start addressing that first, and go from there.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
