I did some further thinking about your request...as to what I thought a MC would say in regards to how to meet your #1 need of "Complete Sexual Fulfillment"....and also make sure your W's #1 need (which we don't know) is met as well...without altering your #1 need. Talk about a catch 22-setup.
I can come up with response after response for you but what it comes down to IMPO is this......get a MC and find out what his/her advice would be. You are still (in my eyes) looking for reasons NOT to do the work it takes to fix your R.
Are you afraid of actually going to a MC (with or without your W) and talking to him/her and hearing what he/she will have to say? I'm not calling you a coward here, many people have a hard time facing up to their own shortcomings and this isn't an attack, merely observation....but I have noticed you have a tendancy not to respond to posts where people call you out, tell you what they see in you just from your posts on this BB....but if we agree with your take on your negative outlook on your R and your W you respond....because then you don't have to take any responsibility.
CeMar, I'd really love to be able to help you....but I can't escape from the feeling that you don't want help, you want us to agree with you.
