I'm new to this but I'm one of those who lied to his woman, and no not about another woman.
I've been doing a lot of research and found that you will never forget what has happened, but this is not forgiving. Forgiving is for those that have been hurt, not those who have done the hurting. If you love this person you will have to forgive them as a way of healing yourself. Holding onto the anger will only fester inside you and cause further problems. You can forgive someone, you just don't have to tolerate what they did to you.
I've been doing a lot of research and found that you will never forget what has happened, but this is not forgiving. Forgiving is for those that have been hurt, not those who have done the hurting. If you love this person you will have to forgive them as a way of healing yourself. Holding onto the anger will only fester inside you and cause further problems. You can forgive someone, you just don't have to tolerate what they did to you.
