Every day my confusion grows...

[bravagal]

Lmdi,

Hope you are at B&N this very instant enjoying a latte and a book!

I think you are doing a great job. Isnt it funny how when we do get those positive interactions or gestures from H we get sooo frustrated because we want more. I wonder if your H retreats after the positives because he is scared.

I think my S has helped our R in many ways too. Waht I also see is my H stuck in this trap of sorts where the S becomes the easier way out. sigh...

Sorry I have not posted more. I have my sis living with me at the moment. It is nice to have the company but geesh, I had gotten really used to having my privacy as soon as I got in the door. Now I have to interact (gasp) with someone evenings!

Enjoy your evening whereever you are at!

brava