Hey SS-
Thanks for your reply. I struggle back and forth with this issue. On one hand, I don't want to be too accessible and i certainly don't want him to "have his cake..." But, b/c the rejection was such an issue in the past, and I am trying to show him that things will be different, i feel like that the ML is a good thing. I want him to realize what he is and will be missing. But, its hard after, you know, to have to leave my house. God, this sucks!