Okay, here's my question, and i need some advice b/c i don't know what to do... H and I have been getting along better over the past 2 months. We have been spending more time together and we have a good time. We are still intimate. But, i don't know if this is good or bad. There is the sow/ow issue, which makes me feel like he can't have his cake and eat it too (so to speak). But, b/c me rejecting him previously was such an issue, i don't want that to become an issue again. I have to prove with my actions and not my words, you know. We both initiate ML, so its not one-sided. I just get so confused if i am doing the right thing, or if it is making it worse. Any ideas?